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300. "i used to be able to walk around freely after dark, but it has become too dangerous to do so"
I chat with Natalia, a woman from Moldova who has been living in Austria for more than a decade.
299. "we used to have normal divorce rates, but then during the war, the numbers went up 80%"
I recently met a woman called Anna who is from a small town near Kyiv in Ukraine. We have a little chat.
298. What A Hoover Sounds Like
Both my ex-husband and my ex-boyfriend hoovered me frequently.
297. the 9 most common reasons for divorce in china
The reasons why couples divorce can differ from country to country.
296. i recently took part in a research study
I recently attended a class and participated in a research study.
295. the character “sēn” (森)
The character “sēn” (森) means ‘forest’. It is commonly used in the Chinese word “sēnlín” (森林).
294. When Your X-Account Isn't Safe: My Experience with Repeated Security Breaches
A hacker keeps altering the settings of my X-account.
293. “One Day, I Found My Former Wife in Bed With Another Man”
I chat with Ben, an Austrian man my age.
292. "We Had Heard a Lot About the War in Other Areas of the Ukraine, but I Had Never Experienced It Personally Until One Day, We Were Attacked"
I recently met a woman called Anna who is from a small town near Kyiv in Ukraine. We have a little chat.
291. Micromanagement Limits Your Independence (And So Do Certain Men)
Another boundary violation = another post.
290. the four sleep chronotypes by michael breus (dolphin, bear, lion and wolf)
The four sleep chronotypes have been discovered by Dr. Michael Breus.
289. when a stalker is living his life with you in it
No woman should ever have to deal with a mentally ill stalker who tries to make her his therapist or caregiver.
288. some dating apps will not allow you to take pictures of conversations
Many dating apps block the option to take a screenshot of a conversation.
287. A Sociopath Has Stalked And Slut-Shamed Me For Years
I have signed up to a dating app to find out if a sociopath who has stalked me for years still appears on any dating app I sign up to.
286. you know what, it's not me, it's you
The problem is not me, it’s you.
285. cyber bullying
All of the cyber bullying I have experienced came from men.
284. not everything can be generalized, so please don't
The stalker who has made my life a living hell for more than 3 years in a row is generalizing things that can’t be generalized.
283. i am saying no to allowing another person to rape my soul
The sociopathic stalker is still trying to force me into being in a non-consensual relationship with him.
282. saying no to a narcissist
When I say ‘no’ to the singer I used to date, he’ll punish me for saying no.
281. please change yourself
When you are the problem, the person who needs to change is you, not someone else.
280. "no drama song"
One of the songs Joris has written for me is called “No drama song”.
279. these aren't your relationships and you shouldn't be in there
Please stop destroying my relationships.
278. Indirect Communication
Indirect communication and passive-aggressive behavior can be a barrier to solving problems.
277. aggression and violence
The singer I have been writing about can become very violent.
276. No, I Am Not the One Who Needs to Change, You Are the One Who Needs to Change
I can see the difference between what is true and what is not, thanks for the projections, and no, I do not need to change into who I am not.
275. a 'no' will not magically change into a 'yes'
Stop intimidating me.
274. Guess What? It's Still A 'No'.
Your behavior means: No, never again will we be in a relationship.
273. When yin and yang are mixed up
Relationships don’t work when yin and yang are mixed up.
272. When You Have Set (reasonable) Boundaries But They Have Been Ignored, The Problem Is Not You But The Other Person
Another boundary violation = another post.
271. i was not asking for too much
The singer is still violating my boundaries and has not stopped his abuse.
270. I did not get a hearing in the child custody trial
My appeal has been declined.
269. guess what, you are missing the point
You know you are dealing with a toxic person when everything you say is being ignored and changed to mean the opposite of what you are saying.
268. another boundary violation
= another post
267. child abuse
I thought that my children would be well taken care of but have found that they were not.
266. Stop Your Aggressive Behavior Towards Me
The singer still keeps violating my boundaries.
265. stop your threats
I repeat: You are a coward and I do not date somebody who acts the way you did.
264. when the perpetrator acts as though he is the victim
I have often encountered that a perpetrator will deny all guilt and then acts as though he is the victim of the real victim.
263. reactive abuse
Reactive abuse is what happens when a person is being provoked by another person until she explodes.
262. Did The Abuse Stop?
This is how the story unfolded.
261. Repeated Security Breaches by a hacker: My Experience with Multiple Hacks
I have experienced repeated security breaches.
260. if you can keep him out of your life, please do
If you know someone is a malignant narcissist, it is better to keep them out of your life than in it.
259. there are better ways
How about dating someone who is more suitable?
258. So You Thought You Would Keep Abusing Me
I have been abused by a German singer, who has also tried to silence me.
257. child custody ruling (appeal)
This is the English version of the child custody appeal.
256. Does a Psychopath Reveal Their Identity Through Language?
Certain speech patterns can give away that someone is a psychopath.
255. it would be easy for my chinese ex-husband to get away with murder and he knows this
In a legal sense, it would be difficult to sue my ex-husband for commissioning a murder.
254. the stalker at the café
The stalking didn’t end with my last post.
253. stop your harassment
The abuse I have suffered at the hands of malignant narcissists is horrible.
252. I repeat: leave me alone
Enough is enough.
251. leave me alone
One ‘no’ is enough.