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300. Scapegoating – How Organizations Assign Blame
Maurizio Catino’s book explains how scapegoating occurs within organizations.
299. Vienna At Night - My Latest Short Film (YouTube)
I created this video yesterday for my YouTube channel.
298. “Our New World of Adult Bullies” (by Bill Eddy)
Bill Eddy explains how to deal with adult bullies in this book.
297. "I soon realized that judges are only human and not always neutral"
I chat with a woman who used to be a lawyer in Russia.
296. 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (by Bill Eddy)
Bill Eddy describes the personality traits of people who can ruin your life in his book “5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life.”
295. Underestimated and Overlooked: The Authority Gap
Many women face discrimination due to the authority gap that exists between men and women.
294. Femicides Are A Huge Problem Across The World
Femicide rates have been rising across many European countries.
293. Social Media: Lack of Authenticity in a Competitive World
In my opinion, social media has completely gotten out of control these past few years.
292. Shanghai Refuge: A Memoir of the World War II Jewish Ghetto
Ernest G. Heppner describes the stories of Jews such as him who fled from Germany to Shanghai during World War II in his autobiographical work.
291. Online Misogyny: Why Women Are Forced To Leave The Internet
Male hackers have attacked me in ways that make it nearly impossible to maintain a career.
290. Vienna (Train Journey) - My Latest Short Film (YouTube)
I recently made this video in Vienna.
289. Benign Bigotry: The Psychology of Subtle Prejudice (by Kristin J. Anderson)
When prejudice is subtle, it can be hard to fight.
288. People Skills: How to Assert Yourself, Listen to Others, and Resolve Conflicts (by robert bolton, ph.d.)
Many relationships end because of a lack of or poor communication.
287. The Gaslight Effect: How to spot and survive the hidden manipulation others use to control your life (by Dr. Robin Stern)
Have you ever experienced being gaslit?
286. No, Constantly Talking About Sex Is Not Sexual Maturity
The sociopathic stalker has tried to repeatedly coerce me into talking about sex with him.
285. “I Would Like for you to buy a new menstrual cup”
The stalker I have written about is not willing to leave me alone and to respect my privacy.
284. When A Person Is So Sick He Takes Over Your Identity
A stalker has taken over my identity.
283. People are being targeted for having their own opinion
Austria has become more authoritarian than it used to be.
282. Introversion Is Not Silent Treatment
The stalker who won’t leave me alone is trying to shame me into being an extrovert.
281. When Direction Is Missing
South, North, East, West.
280. How to Tell if Someone Has Hacked into ChatGPT
Usually, when we use ChatGPT, we trust it to be a secure platform that cannot be easily compromised. However, I have found the opposite to be true.
279. Disrupting Alliances—"The Art of War" (Sunzi)
One of the methods Sunzi describes in his book “The Art of War” is disrupting alliances.
278. Why It Is Important to Write About AMWF Relationships That Didn’t Work Out
We tend to read a lot about AMWF relationships that worked out, but less about those that didn’t.
277. What I find attractive in a man
This is a short overview of behavior I find attractive in a man.
276. I Am In A relentless Cyber War
I have been attacked by various hackers who have tried to destroy my career.
275. "People and Phones (Vienna Edition)" by Ruth Silbermayr on YouTube
I created this short video yesterday in Vienna about people and phones.
274. Dating A Narcissist Is Like Dating A Dinosaur
Have you ever dated a narcissist?
273. Why Do highly Successful Men sabotage women's Careers?
Men have repeatedly sabotaged my career.
272. When Abusers Try to Force You to Use Non-Violent Communication but Use Violent Language and Behavior
The sociopathic stalker I have been writing about has been trying to force me to use non-violent communication.
271. The sociopathic stalker recently reported me to the police so he could keep abusing me
The sociopath I have been writing about keeps harassing me.
270. What is real happiness?
I created a short video in Chinese that explores this question.
269. "I had a lot of weapons at home"
I chat with Ben, an Austrian my age.
268. Stalking Is Very Common In Relationships
I have observed that stalking is more common in most relationships than people would think.
267. "i used to be able to walk around freely after dark, but it has become too dangerous to do so"
I chat with Natalia, a woman from Moldova who has been living in Austria for more than a decade.
266. Divorce in Ukraine: "During the War, the Numbers Went up 80%"
I recently met a woman called Anna who is from a small town near Kyiv in Ukraine. We have a little chat.
265. the 9 most common reasons for divorce in china
The reasons why couples divorce can differ from country to country.
264. i recently took part in a research study
I recently attended a class and participated in a research study.
263. When Your X-Account Isn't Safe: My Experience with hacking
A hacker keeps altering the settings of my X-account.
262. “One Day, I Found My Former Wife in Bed With Another Man”
I chat with Ben, an Austrian man my age.
261. "I Had Never Experienced the Russia-Ukraine War Until We Were Attacked"
I recently met a woman called Anna who is from a small town near Kyiv in Ukraine. We have a little chat.
260. Micromanagement Limits Your Independence (And So Do Certain Men)
Another boundary violation = another post.
259. the four sleep chronotypes by michael breus (dolphin, bear, lion and wolf)
The four sleep chronotypes have been discovered by Dr. Michael Breus.
258. when a stalker is living his life with you in it
No woman should ever have to deal with a mentally ill stalker who tries to make her his therapist or caregiver.
257. some dating apps will not allow you to take pictures of conversations
Many dating apps block the option to take a screenshot of a conversation.
256. A Sociopath Has Stalked And Slut-Shamed Me For Years
I have signed up to a dating app to find out if a sociopath who has stalked me for years still appears on any dating app I sign up to.
255. Cyber Bullying: When Women Are Being Targeted by Hackers
All of the cyber bullying I have experienced came from men.
254. not everything can be generalized, so please don't
The stalker who has made my life a living hell for more than 3 years in a row is generalizing things that can’t be generalized.
253. i am saying no to allowing another person to rape my soul
The sociopathic stalker is still trying to force me into being in a non-consensual relationship with him.
252. I Did Not Get a Hearing in the Child Custody Trial (Amwf Divorce)
My appeal in the child custody trial has been declined, where I sought to regain access to my Austrian-Chinese children who are living in China at an unknown address.
251. Child Abuse: When A Chinese Parent Abuses His Children
I thought that my children would be well taken care of but have found that they were not.
250. Repeated Security Breaches by a Hacker
I have experienced repeated security breaches.
249. child custody ruling (appeal)
This is the English version of the child custody appeal.
248. Does a Psychopath Reveal Their Identity Through Language?
Certain speech patterns can give away that someone is a psychopath.
247. it would be easy for my chinese ex-husband to get away with murder and he knows this
In a legal sense, it would be difficult to sue my Chinese ex-husband for commissioning a murder.
246. The stalker at the café
The stalking didn’t end with my last post.
245. telling the truth
My family has not dealt correctly with the situation I have found myself in.
244. the waste area of my compound burned down yesterday
This is the second time since 2020 that a building right next to where I live has burned down.
243. the earth rotates around you
When you are dealing with a gaslighter, what is up is down and what is down is up.
242. I guess it was me then
I have experienced a lot of victim blaming by both men and women.
241. "bully a plant"
Ikea has conducted an experiment where a plant was bullied over a period of time. A sociopath whose advances I have declined has done the same to me.
240. Thanks for deleting me
Your behavior is certainly teaching our children healthy and stable relationships (I’m kidding, it’s not).
239. 6:30 A.m. (A Short Animation)
I created this short animation in February.
238. i am working at a lovely shop with a café
I really enjoy my work, but there is one downside to it: I have another stalker.
237. When Female Choice Is Being Ignored As Though It Doesn't Exist
I have been harassed for 3 years in a row by a misogynistic man.
236. Stalkers Can Be Delusional, And They Are certainly Dangerous
The sociopath who stalks me seems to be schizophrenic.
235. a sick person's gaslighting
I have been gaslit by a sociopath who has been trying to create a fake reality for me.
234. Cultural Alienation (Alienating Mixed Children)
I have experienced racism in my relationship with my Chinese ex-husband and former in-laws.
233. three video calls
I have finally been able to reconnect with my children in video calls.
232. How Do You Know If Someone Is A Sociopath?
While most of us would imagine a psychopath is the worst kind of person you could come across, in my own experience, sociopaths can be even worse.
231. i am still dealing with a sociopath
Have you ever been used as a porn template by a man?
230. parental alienation is not pseudo-science, it's real
In recent years, great efforts have been made to declare parental alienation a pseudo-scientific approach.
229. i received my divorce decree
I am now officially divorced.
228. happy new year of the dragon!
Today marks the beginning of the Chinese Year of the Dragon.
227. Chinese words for going to court
Here is a list of Chinese words and phrases you can use if you have to go to court for a divorce.
226. having a mother is not detrimental to kids
In Austria, courts frequently grant custody to fathers, often restricting mothers’ access and ability to participate in raising their own children.
225. A stay in the German countryside
I stay in the German countryside in the summer of 2019.
224. Ruth Silbermayr-Song’s Two Boys Are Being Kept Hidden At An Unbeknownst Address To Her In China By Her Ex
Susan Blumberg-Kason recently published a post about my story on her blog.
223. "the price of shame" by monica lewinsky
Monica Lewinsky talks about being publicly shamed.
222. "telephone"
Court proceedings can be likened to the game “Telephone”.
221. recusing a judge
I tried to recuse a judge on grounds of being biased, but my motions were dismissed.
220. Publishing Posts is risky
People sometimes retaliate against me because of what I publish.
219. the most expensive letter i have ever sent
Sending a letter to the Austrian Constitutional Court costs 240 euros.
218. my electricity bill
Europe is experiencing its worst energy crisis in decades.
217. How I Became a 'Nun' in China (and Discovered Cheating is Common Among Chinese Husbands)
I ended up in a sexless marriage with a cheating Chinese husband.
216. i saved a person's life
I see a student sit on a windowsill in Changchun in 2019.
215. have you found it hard to prove domestic violence?
Once I started to talk about my experience, most people tried to refute the idea that I had experienced domestic violence in my relationship.
214. wood, fire, earth, metal and water
In China, a person’s birth element is calculated after birth.
213. "i'm simply going for a walk"
I find myself being followed by a stranger in Austria.
212. "some of our clients would turn away from our salon"
I chat with a hairdresser in Vienna.
211. custody proceedings have finally started
I have applied for sole custody in 2022.
210. a single phone call
I try to find out my children’s whereabouts but don’t receive the necessary help.
209. many children in china suffer parental alienation by a grandparent
Unlike the EU, China does not recognize parental alienation as a form of emotional child abuse.
208. My Chinese Mother-in-law Stole My Children
A mother’s custodial rights are not sufficiently protected in China.
207. I'm not shy
I often receive criticism for being an introvert.
206. being stalked by my Chinese husband
After an incident in 2020, I realized I had been stalked by my Chinese ex, from whom I was separated but not yet divorced.
205. the day I left China
When I left China in 2019, I never thought I would not see my children again.
204. my Chinese ex-husband's false accusations
I am served with divorce papers in spring 2022.
203. the vienna chamber of lawyers
When perpetrators are protected by institutions, victims don’t stand a chance.
202. my Chinese ex-husband's smear campaigns
My Chinese ex has tried to ruin my reputation.
201. blaming the victim
I have been victim blamed for many years.