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I Am Saying No To Allowing Another Person To Rape My Soul
The sociopathic stalker is still trying to force me into a non-consensual relationship with him.
18/06/2024
Ruth Silbermayr
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The sociopathic stalker who continues to harass me has intensified his efforts to gaslight me into submission, using intimidation tactics to invade my privacy.
Lately, he has also been working to alter my core beliefs, attempting to manipulate the very foundation of my identity.
You may be familiar with the concept of core beliefs. Many people strive to change their own negative core beliefs to foster a more positive outlook. For instance, if you were your family’s scapegoat, you might carry beliefs such as “I am unworthy” or “I deserve the bad things that happen to me.” However, if you’re not inherently evil, your core belief should align with reality: “I am a worthy human being who did not deserve what happened to me.”
For some of us, another person’s core beliefs can be sensed just by observing them. If someone feels unloved, you might notice it in their demeanor, speech, or behavior.
We are never allowed to alter another person’s core beliefs without their explicit consent.
Certain life coaches, particularly those who lack self-awareness or fail to reflect on their own behavior, can exploit their clients. A sociopathic stalker—who has repeatedly attempted to force himself into my life—is an example of this. Through his words and actions, he has tried to impose a non-consensual relationship on me.
Some life coaches project their own unresolved issues onto their clients, casting them as the “identified patient.” This deflection allows the coach to avoid confronting their own problems. For narcissistic life coaches, this tactic creates dependency in their clients, which serves their need for control.
I never sought this person’s help. He has intruded into my life repeatedly, forcing a relationship I did not agree to.
He constantly tries to alter my core beliefs.
For example, if a woman says she doesn’t like a man, and her core belief reflects that dislike, the man has no right to change her belief into “I like him.” Doing so is immoral and violates the ethical boundaries life coaches are supposed to follow. Coaches should only act in alignment with what their clients explicitly request and permit.
Unethical practices like these aren’t healing; they are harmful projections.
However, this stalker does not restore my core beliefs. Instead, he manipulates them for his own Machiavellian purposes, twisting them to break my will. His goal is to force me into a state where I can no longer say “no” to things I would otherwise refuse.
This is what I consider soul rape. It feels as though your very essence is violated when someone manipulates your beliefs without your consent—especially when you have explicitly forbidden them from doing so.
When a life coach operates this way, it is outright abuse. It’s an abuse of power, and the act of brainwashing constitutes psychological abuse. If you ever encounter a life coach who behaves in this manner, I urge you to stay far away.
Has a life coach ever tried to brainwash you?