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350. Stalked by an Incel: A Five-Year Nightmare
I have been stalked by an incel who won’t leave me alone.
349. Toxic In-Laws: Loving Strategies for Protecting Your Marriage (By Susan Forward)
Bill Eddy describes the personality traits of people who can ruin your life in his book “5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life: Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other High-Conflict Personalities”.
348. Understanding Introversion: A Call for Acceptance
347. "I soon realized that judges are only human and not always neutral, and neither is the court system"
I chat with a woman who used to be a lawyer in Russia.
346. “Why Is It Always About You?: The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism” (by Sandy Hotchkiss)
Sandy Hotchkiss explains the seven signs of a narcissist in her book.
345. "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" (by Bill Eddy)
Bill Eddy describes the personality traits of people who can ruin your life in his book “5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life: Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other High-Conflict Personalities”.
344. Supreme Courts, Supreme Inequality
Many expect Supreme Courts to deliver just verdicts and are shocked when they don’t.
343. "Why Women Are Blamed For Everything: Exposing the Culture of Victim-Blaming" (by Dr. Jessica Taylor)
Women who experience abuse and violence are often blamed for their perpetrator’s actions.
342. Stereotypes: The Incidence and Impact of Bias
People carry negative and positive stereotypes, both can be harmful.
341. From Nazi Germany to Shanghai: The Struggle for Jewish Survival
During the Second World War, Shanghai was the only place in the world where Jews could enter without needing a visa.
340. The Incels You Didn’t Know About: A Closer Look
Incels aren’t as rare as one may think.
339. Underestimated and Overlooked: The Authority Gap
Many women face discrimination due to the authority gap that exists between men and women.
338. "Everyday Sexism" (by Laura Bates)
I have observed a rise in sexual assaults.
337. "Coercive Control: Breaking Free From Psychological Abuse" (by Lauren Kozlowski)
Lauren Kozlowski describes what coercive control is and what to look out for when experiencing it.
336. Femicides Are A Huge Problem Across The World
Femicide rates have been rising across many European countries.
335. Social Media Craziness - The Downfall of Authenticity in a Competitive World
In my opinion, social media has completely gotten out of control these past few years.
334. "Shanghai Refuge: A Memoir of the World War 2 Jewish Ghetto" (by Ernest G. Heppner)
Ernest G. Heppner describes the stories of Jews such as him who fled from Germany to Shanghai during World War II in his autobiographical work.
333. "Men Who Hate Women - From Incels to Pickup Artists: The Truth about Extreme Misogyny and How It Affects Us All" (by Laura Bates)
Many women have experienced harassment by misogynistic men.
332. "Misogyny Online" (by Emma Jane): Women Like Me Are Leaving The Internet
Male hackers have attacked me in ways that make it nearly impossible to maintain a career.
331. Vienna (Train Journey) - My Latest Short Film (YouTube)
I recently made this video in Vienna.
330. How Contemporary Values Collide With Traditional Values in China
For many Western women, China is a country where traditional values prevail over contemporary values.
329. You Ended Your Relationship With me, Now Deal With It appropriately
No, I am not a man, you are not a woman. I am not the perpetrator, you are not the victim. I am not your mother, you are not my son.
328. "Benign Bigotry: The Psychology of Subtle Prejudice" (by Kristin J. Anderson)
When prejudice is subtle, it can be hard to fight.
327. "People Skills: How to Assert Yourself, Listen to Others, and Resolve Conflicts" (by robert bolton, ph.d.)
Many relationships end because of a lack of or poor communication.
326. "The Gaslight Effect: How to spot and survive the hidden manipulation others use to control your life" (by Dr. Robin Stern)
Have you ever experienced being gaslit?
325. Stop Talking to Me About That Portuguese Model
In my eyes, your behavior towards me is misogynistic and lacks respect.
324. "emotional blackmail" (by Dr. Susan forward)
How can you spot emotional blackmail in relationships?
323. The Problem With Mother-Enmeshed-Sons (MEM) In AMWF Relationships and beyond
A marriage with a mother-enmeshed son (MEM) is often doomed to fail.
322. No, Constantly Talking About Sex Is Not Sexual Maturity
The sociopathic stalker has tried to repeatedly coerce me into talking about sex with him.
321. Bye, bye, mein Herz
I don’t like Joris’ latest song “Bye, bye, my love”.
320. “I Would Like for you to buy a new menstrual cup”
The stalker I have written about is not willing to leave me alone and to respect my privacy.
A stalker has taken over my identity.
318. People are being targeted for having their own opinion
Austria has become more authoritarian than it used to be.
317. Introversion Is Not Silent Treatment
The stalker who won’t leave me alone is trying to shame me into being an extrovert.
316. When Direction Is Missing
South, North, East, West.
315. How to Tell if Someone Has Hacked into ChatGPT
Usually, when we use ChatGPT, we trust it to be a secure platform that cannot be easily compromised. However, I have found the opposite to be true.
314. Disrupting Alliances—"The Art of War" (Sunzi)
One of the methods Sunzi describes in his book “The Art of War” is disrupting alliances.
313. Why It Is Important to Write About AMWF Relationships That Didn’t Work Out
We tend to read a lot about AMWF relationships that worked out, but less about those that didn’t.
312. What I find attractive in a man
This is a short overview of behavior I find attractive in a man.
311. a good woman listens to her man (nura)
Leave me alone.
310. I Am In A relentless Cyber War
I have been attacked by various hackers who have tried to destroy my career.
309. Stop Talking to Me About Your Ex-Girlfriend, Nura
In my eyes, your behavior shows you have no self-esteem.
308. "People and Phones (Vienna Edition)" by Ruth Silbermayr on YouTube
I created this short video yesterday in Vienna about people and phones.
307. Dating A Narcissist Is Like Dating A Dinosaur
Have you ever dated a narcissist?
306. Why Do highly Successful Men sabotage women's Careers?
Men have repeatedly sabotaged my career.
305. When Abusers Try to Force You to Use Non-Violent Communication but Use Violent Language and Behavior
The sociopathic stalker I have been writing about has been trying to force me to use non-violent communication.
304. The sociopathic stalker recently reported me to the police so he could keep abusing me
The sociopath I have been writing about keeps harassing me.
303. What is real happiness?
I created a short video in Chinese that explores this question.
302. "I had a lot of weapons at home"
I chat with Ben, an Austrian my age.
301. Stalking Is Very Common In Relationships
I have observed that stalking is more common in most relationships than people would think.