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243. Thanks for deleting me

Your behavior is certainly teaching our children healthy and stable relationships (I’m kidding, it’s not).

242. dear joris,

no hoover will ever heal a relationship.

241. i will not date a person who is insane

Some narcissists coerce you into non-consensual communication and relationships.

240. 6:30 am

I created this short animation in February.

239. i am working at a lovely shop with a café

I really enjoy my work, but there is one downside to it: I have another stalker.

238. When Female Choice Is Being Ignored As Though It Doesn't Exist

I have been harassed for 3 years in a row by a misogynistic man.

237. Stalkers Can Be Delusional, And They Are certainly Dangerous

The sociopath who stalks me seems to be schizophrenic.

236. a sick person's gaslighting

I have been gaslit by a sociopath who has been trying to create a fake reality for me.

235. cultural alienation

I have experienced racism in my relationship with my ex-husband and former in-laws.

234. three video calls

I have finally been able to reconnect with my children in video calls.

233. How Do You Know If Someone Is A Sociopath?

While most of us would imagine a psychopath is the worst kind of person you could come across, in my own experience, sociopaths can be even worse.

232. i am still dealing with a sociopath

Have you ever been used as a porn template by a man?

231. when harassment doesn't stop

I have been harassed by a well-known German singer.

230. parental alienation is not pseudo-science, it's real

In recent years, great efforts have been made to declare parental alienation a pseudo-scientific approach.

229. i received my divorce decree

I am now officially divorced.

228. happy new year of the dragon!

Today marks the beginning of the Chinese Year of the Dragon.

227. Chinese words for going to court

Here is a list of Chinese words and phrases you can use if you have to go to court for a divorce.

226. having a mother is not detrimental to kids, but having a father who abuses them is

Courts in Austria frequently give children to their fathers and don’t let women have access to or partake in parenting their own children.

225. A stay in the German countryside

I stay in the German countryside in the summer of 2019.

224. Ruth Silbermayr-Song’s Two Boys Are Being Kept Hidden At An Unbeknownst Address To Her In China By Her Ex

Susan Blumberg-Kason recently published a post about my story on her blog.

223. "the price of shame" by monica lewinsky

Monica Lewinsky talks about being publicly shamed.

222. "telephone"

Court proceedings can be likened to the game “Telephone”.

221. recusing a judge

I tried to recuse a judge on grounds of being biased, but my motions were dismissed.

220. Publishing Posts is risky

People sometimes retaliate against me because of what I publish.

219. the most expensive letter i have ever sent

Sending a letter to the Austrian Constitutional Court costs 240 euros.

218. my electricity bill

Europe is experiencing its worst energy crisis in decades.

217. how i became a “nun” in china

I ended up in a sexless marriage with a cheating husband.

216. i saved a person's life

I see a student sit on a windowsill in Changchun in 2019.

215. have you found it hard to prove domestic violence?

Once I started to talk about my experience, most people tried to refute the idea that I had experienced domestic violence in my relationship.

214. wood, fire, earth, metal and water

In China, a person’s birth element is calculated after birth.

213. "i'm simply going for a walk"

I find myself being followed by a stranger in Austria.

212. "some of our clients would turn away from our salon"

I chat with a hairdresser in Vienna.

211. custody proceedings have finally started

I have applied for sole custody in 2022.

210. a single phone call

I try to find out my children’s whereabouts but don’t receive the necessary help.

209. many children in china suffer parental alienation by a grandparent

Unlike the EU, China does not recognize parental alienation as a form of emotional child abuse.

208. my mother-in-law stole my children

A mother’s custodial rights are not sufficiently protected in China.

207. I'm not shy

I often receive criticism for being an introvert.

206. being stalked by my ex

After an occurrence in 2020, I realize I had been stalked by my ex.

205. the day I left China

When I left China in 2019, I never thought I would not see my children again.

204. my ex-husband's false accusations

I am served with divorce papers in spring 2022.

203. the vienna chamber of lawyers

When perpetrators are protected by institutions, victims don’t stand a chance.

202. my ex-husband's smear campaigns

My ex has tried to ruin my reputation.

201. blaming the victim

I have been victim blamed for many years.