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299. "we used to have normal divorce rates, but then during the war, the numbers went up 80%"

I recently met a woman called Anna who is from a small town near Kyiv in Ukraine. We have a little chat.

298. What A Hoover Sounds Like

Both my ex-husband and my ex-boyfriend hoovered me frequently.

297. the 9 most common reasons for divorce in china

The reasons why couples divorce can differ from country to country.

296. i recently took part in a research study

I recently attended a class and participated in a research study.

295. the character “sēn” (森)

The character “sēn” (森) means ‘forest’. It is commonly used in the Chinese word “sēnlín” (森林).

294. When Your X-Account Isn't Safe: My Experience with Repeated Security Breaches

A hacker keeps altering the settings of my X-account.

293. “One Day, I Found My Former Wife in Bed With Another Man”

I chat with Ben, an Austrian man my age.

292. "We Had Heard a Lot About the War in Other Areas of the Ukraine, but I Had Never Experienced It Personally Until One Day, We Were Attacked"

I recently met a woman called Anna who is from a small town near Kyiv in Ukraine. We have a little chat.

291. Micromanagement Limits Your Independence (And So Do Certain Men)

Another boundary violation = another post.

290. the four sleep chronotypes by michael breus (dolphin, bear, lion and wolf)​

The four sleep chronotypes have been discovered by Dr. Michael Breus.

289. when a stalker is living his life with you in it

No woman should ever have to deal with a mentally ill stalker who tries to make her his therapist or caregiver.

288. some dating apps will not allow you to take pictures of conversations

Many dating apps block the option to take a screenshot of a conversation.

287. A Sociopath Has Stalked And Slut-Shamed Me For Years

I have signed up to a dating app to find out if a sociopath who has stalked me for years still appears on any dating app I sign up to.

286. you know what, it's not me, it's you

The problem is not me, it’s you.

285. cyber bullying

All of the cyber bullying I have experienced came from men.

284. not everything can be generalized, so please don't

The stalker who has made my life a living hell for more than 3 years in a row is generalizing things that can’t be generalized.

283. i am saying no to allowing another person to rape my soul

The sociopathic stalker is still trying to force me into being in a non-consensual relationship with him.

282. saying no to a narcissist

When I say ‘no’ to Joris, he’ll punish me for saying no.

281. please change yourself

When you are the problem, the person who needs to change is you, not someone else.

280. "no drama song"

One of the songs Joris has written for me is called “No drama song”.

279. these aren't your relationships and you shouldn't be in there

Please stop destroying my relationships.

278. Indirect Communication Is Bad Communication

Indirect communication and passive-aggressive behavior can be a barrier to solving problems.

277. aggression and violence

The singer I have been writing about can become very violent.

276. No, I Am Not the One Who Needs to Change, You Are the One Who Needs to Change

I can see the difference between what is true and what is not, thanks for the projections, and no, I do not need to change into who I am not.

275. a 'no' will not magically change into a 'yes'

Stop intimidating me.

274. Guess What? It's Still A 'No'.

Your behavior means: No, never again will we be in a relationship.

273. When yin and yang are mixed up

Relationships don’t work when yin and yang are mixed up.

272. When You Have Set (reasonable) Boundaries But They Have Been Ignored, The Problem Is Not You But The Other Person

Another boundary violation = another post.

271. i was not asking for too much​

Joris ist still violating my boundaries and has not stopped his abuse.

270. I did not get a hearing in the child custody trial

My appeal has been declined.

269. guess what, you are missing the point

You know you are dealing with a toxic person when everything you say is being ignored and changed to mean the opposite of what you are saying.

268. another boundary violation

= another post

267. child abuse

I thought that my children would be well taken care of but have found that they were not.

266. Stop Your Aggressive Behavior Towards Me

Joris still keeps violating my boundaries.

265. stop your threats

I repeat: You are a coward and I do not date somebody who acts the way you did.

264. when the perpetrator acts as though he is the victim

I have often encountered that a perpetrator will deny all guilt and then acts as though he is the victim of the real victim.

263. reactive abuse

Reactive abuse is what happens when a person is being provoked by another person until she explodes.

262. Did The Abuse Stop?

This is how the story unfolded.

261. Repeated Security Breaches by a hacker: My Experience with Multiple Hacks

I have experienced repeated security breaches.

260. if you can keep him out of your life, please do

If you know someone is a malignant narcissist, it is better to keep them out of your life than in it.

259. there are better ways

How about dating someone who is more suitable?

258. So You Thought You Would Keep Abusing Me

I have been abused by a German singer, who has also tried to silence me.

257. child custody ruling (appeal)

This is the English version of the child custody appeal.

256. how psychopathy may show in language

Certain speech patterns can give away that someone is a psychopath.

255. it would be easy for my chinese ex-husband to get away with murder and he knows this

In a legal sense, it would be difficult to sue my ex-husband for commissioning a murder.

254. the stalker at the café

The stalking didn’t end with my last post.

253. stop your harassment

The abuse I have suffered at the hands of malignant narcissists is horrible.

252. I repeat: leave me alone

Enough is enough.

251. leave me alone​

One ‘no’ is enough.