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No, I Am Not the One Who Needs to Change, You Are the One Who Needs to Change

I can see the difference between what is true and what is not, thanks for the projections, and no, I do not need to change into who I am not.

10/06/2024

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To the singer I used to date: For one, stop your smear campaign and your bullying of me. The only reason why you can continue to do so is because others cannot see what is really going on.

You are not mirroring yourself correctly, and you do not mirror back to me correctly who I am.

There is a lot you can do about this, and focusing on whatever the other person supposedly did wrong, and not what you did wrong, is the wrong attitude.

You are in denial of reality, and you are resistant to change. I do not care if you do not change, but do not push yourself onto me or coerce me into having to change myself into who I am not.

Stop making me blog about this, and stop to intimidate me.

No, I Am Not the One Who Needs to Change, You Are the One Who Needs to Change

Stop. You do get the meaning of the word ‘stop’ and ‘no’? You have learned what this means? At school? From your parents? Because certainly your behavior doesn’t show that you have ever had to learn to respect another person, especially having to respect a woman.

Has a man ever become really disrespectful when you asked him to leave you alone?

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