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Leave me alone

One ‘no’ is enough.


Ruth Silbermayr
Ruth Silbermayr


I am restating my boundary here:

No, Joris, I will not ever get back into a relationship with you. You were the one who messed up the relationship. I said ‘no’, I said ‘no’, I said ‘no’ 100,000 more times, but you still ignored my boundaries. I said ‘no’, and I told you that you either respect my ‘no’ the first time around, or you are out of my life.

You did not accept my ‘no’, and therefore you are out of my life. Do not mess with my boundaries. You being a singer does not put you above the law, or above God, and it does not mean you are better than other people. You are still pretend playing that I have no right to a boundary, to say ‘no’, or to spend time alone.

stop your harassment

I am not others. You do not have the right to treat me like a lower human being.

I am not an object that is being owned by you. I have minimum requirements for a man, and you have not reached these minimum requirements. You pretend you know everything, are trying to gaslight me into submission daily, and you are trying to coerce me into doing things I am simply not willing to do.

If you want to kill me, whatever – I do not care about your threats. If you think you need to kill me simply because I don’t like spending time with you or being with you, so be it. I do not care. God punishes those who kill another person. I am not a religious person, but I do believe that God or the universe will see what you are doing, and that karma will eventually strike those who do injustice to others.

You have completely blocked direct, healthy communication, which is why I am posting this on my blog.

I do not need to listen to you, and you have no right to my time.

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