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I guess it was me then
I have experienced a lot of victim blaming by both men and women.
15/05/2024
Ruth Silbermayr
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My apologies
I guess I was just imagining someone was stalking me when I didn’t even have anybody follow me.
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I am so sorry
I asked you to set a boundary with a coworker so I would not be killed or raped.
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My apologies
I was merely doing this because I wanted the attention. Because receiving attention is so important to me. Attention – this precious thing I didn’t have in the past THAT I NOW HAVE. Please, give me more of that! I may die if I do not receive enough of it.
(Just in case you wondered: Some people may actually almost die from receiving too much attention because they are introverts, not narcissists!)
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I’m sorry
I was simply being overly sensitive (especially since I AM A WOMAN).
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My apologies
may I repeat your question to you so you can tell me if I just heard correctly when you asked me if I was less intelligent than others because of what happened to me (and my children)?
Uhm, yes, of course! I am less intelligent, and you are more intelligent! Domestic violence, child abuse or marrying a narcissist – this only happens to dumb women! Actually, I believe these are the least intelligent women you could find anywhere in the world. They are less intelligent than any other women you may ever meet!
Women who experienced domestic violence and other horrible things are very stupid women! These women are dumb, stupid and have very little intelligence, and they are very different from you!
Some of them may even be very ugly as well! These women are almost like a different race, you know – because they are so stupid!
Any other question you would like me to answer?
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I’m sorry
I guess I worded that incorrectly.
Yes, of course, men are being stalked as well. Poor them! I guess when I just said ‘most of the people being stalked are women’ I should have said ‘most of the people being stalked are humans’, and not what I actually meant, which was a statement that was based on research, which is ‘MOST OF THE PEOPLE BEING STALKED ARE WOMEN’. Let’s not discriminate against men by not including them!
Because certainly domestic violence is not a problem that effects women more than men, and because certainly male stalkers are not a bigger problem, in general, than female stalkers! I am so afraid a woman may kill me when I walk down the street. (But yes, a woman once almost killed me in my room by trying to choke me to death, so certainly, women can be dangerous too!)
I am so sorry that when I was talking about the man who was stalking me just now, that I was not considerate of all the poor men out there who are being stalked by women!
How could I be so rude?
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My apologies
I was trying to bring to your attention that people were trying to stop me from informing others that I was being stalked so I could get help. Yes, that is very nice of you that you allow me to go to the police! I didn’t know I needed your permission, but that is very kind of you and you are certainly not like any of them!
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Sorry, not sorry.
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On a side note: This is a humorous post about the victim blaming I have experienced. Please don’t mistake it as my real perspective on things. I had to deal with a lot of shit in my life no single person should ever have to deal with on her own.
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