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China Elevator Stories
there are better ways
How about dating someone who is more suitable?
02/06/2024
Ruth Silbermayr
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I am currently trying to stop Joris from violating my boundaries.
I am therefore posting the truth of what happened anytime he severely violates my boundaries, treats me as his emotional trash can or is in stark denial of reality (that yes, he had responsibilities that he ignored, which made the situations I found myself in more life-threatening and more severe, as well as that our relationship ended because of his abuse and denial of my rights and boundaries).
When he abuses me or does other things I find annoying is when I will now also post about it, with the hope that he will eventually stop the boundary violations.
I do not like to post about this, but I do not see any other way that he will ever leave me alone and respect my boundaries.
If you still wonder if this is really a narcissist, I will have to tell you that yes, he definitely is, and it is really easy to identify. One example is his song Black-White (Schwarz-Weiß), where he is having a narcissistic injury while singing! Ha! Gotcha.
Goodbye. Now leave me alone. Thanks for the engulfment and the codependent behavior!
Have you ever had problems with a person who was in denial of reality?